Posted by Clown on January 12, 19100 at 10:10:43:
In Reply to: My Two Moms posted by Sharon Peters on May 26, 1998 at 18:01:15:
First of all, you wrote your father left your mother eight years ago, and the real issue here is not the fact that your mother is in a gay relationship. The real issue is that you are in H/S, and your embarrassment of her relationship, how do you explain it to your friends?, how much harrassment do you get from the kids at school?
You state you need a father figure, is your father not in your life? do you not visit with him? why? if your father does not spend time with you, it isn't because of your mothers relationship, chances are no matter what lifestyle your mother chooses, your father would still not see you.
I can't recall anywhere in the Bible where it says " it is against Gods will for two people to love one another" same sex or not. I'm tired of all these people using the Bible to hide behind, because they can't just come out and say they dis-agree with same sex relationships.
Being gay is not about sex, it is about LOVE, the Love between two consenting adults. In a gay relationship, sex ( as in any loving relationship)
is a small part of the relationship. As far as children needing father figures, what makes a gay relationship any different than a child who has lost a parent to death, divorce (where a parent won't allow another parent to see a child, or one of the parents chooses not to see their child) There are more children denied a parent due to a messy divorces than gay relationships.
I think you are being immature, and as you get older you will appreciate the fact that no matter who your mother chooses a relationship with you will be happy for her that she has found someone who loves her, and that she loves.
Clown
P.S. Your mother didn't become gay because of a web site, you have been here and your not gay